So, you really need to make sure you look your best at all times—and looking your best isn’t only about being well-dressed or having that “killer” haircut, sexy t-shirt or a great smile.
More and more these days, other men are checking out your skin. No doubt they look you up and down to see how your body appeals to them or check out your sense of humor or clothes, but good skincare is becoming more and more essential.
The state of your skin can tell any observer a lot about you, about your lifestyle and the way you care for yourself generally.
For the closeted gay man, or lady for that matter, life can therefore be very stressful, very fraught. Keep your head down. Make sure no-one sees you out with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Double check that no-one is unduly watching you (especially in Singapore).
Aaah… older gay white men in Asia: What can I say?
As an older gay white man, myself, living in Asia, I speak from my own experiences and over very many years, and that of my friends here. And, of course, these observations can hold true to older gay white men, anywhere in the world, who seek relationships with gay Asian men, (or of Asian descent), anywhere in the world. Of course, there are going to be differences in locales and personalities.
In these more liberal days of greater awareness and acceptance of gay men in Asia, one would automatically think that it’s far easier than ever to find “Mr. Right.”
Well…yes, maybe. Now that the “closet” is not as full as it used to be and gay Asian men across the region are rallying behind the “gay cause,” bringing key gay issues to the forefront and helping dispel homophobic prejudices, it’s certainly easier to find other gay men…